Many people who come across the above title that I have typed, must have thought that it is a "typo error", and that it should be 'forgive AND forget'.
But, the truth is, not everyone can do it. In fact, it is extremely hard to forgive someone especially when he or she has inflicted the pain on you of such an intensity that it can never seemed to be eased.
So what I have figured out is, a better way to make ourselves happy. That is, you either choose to Forgive OR Forget.
Which one works better for you?
1. For those who choose to 'FORGIVE', most likely the issues are minor.
For example, when people start calling you names, you feel the anger inside as if you are going to explode at any time. However, after sometime you might just tell yourself that the person who did that is just an immature innocent kid, so it probably won't bother you anymore.
2. For those who choose to 'FORGET', most likely it involves major issues which have a negative impact on you. Since it has got to do with major issues, then I guess it is not possible to forgive. It's simply too hard. So what you need to do, is just to forget about it and carry on with the beautiful stuff in life. Look at what nature has to offer.
P.S: A good night's rest definitely helps a person to 'FORGET' all those unhappy happenings. So 'forgive or forget' or 'forgive and forget'? It's up to you to decide which method works best on you.
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